Couples Counseling Can Help You and your Partner reconnect with your original feelings of love and rediscover one another again. It could help you stop shutting down when your partner speaks, to protect against divorce, and to open you up to care again, about how your partner’s day was. It could help you feel like your partner is actually listening to you and is interested in what you have to say, and it could help you find different ways to interact to break the pattern of arguing.